Many travelers from abroad are confused by Vietnamese customs.

The order of Vietnamese names is family name first, then middle name and given name. Brides in Vietnam do not adopt their husband"s surnames. But they can be called by their husbands’ called name.

Among Vietnamese, a popular way to address each other, regardless of gender, is to add an age-related term of honor before the family name. These include: ong (honorable old male), ba (honorable old female), anh (young male), chi (young female), em (younger female and male),  bac (honorable middle-aged one), co (honorable middle-aged female), chau (small one)…

Vietnamese do not commonly bow as a form of greeting. Instead, a brief handshake is usual. While meeting elders or senior officials, your handshake should be even more gentle and accompanied by a slight nod. Sometimes, as an expression of warmth, a Vietnamese will cover the normal handshake with his left hand. As a sign of respect, Vietnamese usually lower their eyes slightly when they meet others.

Moreover, embracing or kissing when greeting or saying good-bye is a little unusual. Generally, Vietnamese do not show their emotions and feelings in public. Consequently, it is better not to behave in too carefree a manner in public. Too, it is advisable to be fairly cautious in political discussions.

Vietnam is one of those wonderful countries where tipping is not practiced and almost no one asks for tips. But it is advisable to do so if you are in luxurious hotels.